I am sorry to hear about your girlfriend and her mom my brother, I pray for them.
If it truly is as bad as you say then take what excess you have and give to those who don't have anything and God will bless you.
Joshua 1:9 "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”"
Matthew 25:35 "For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me,"